
Recurring relationship patterns
Similar conflicts, breakups, emotional distance, or difficult relationship dynamics seem to repeat despite your efforts to change them.

Difficult family relationships
Tension, resentment, distance, or unresolved conflict with parents, siblings, children, or other family members continues to affect you.

A strong sense of responsibility for others
You often feel responsible for keeping the family together, solving other people’s problems, or carrying more than feels like your share.

Difficulty with belonging
You may feel separate from your family, caught between loyalty and independence, or unsure where you fit within the wider family system.

Patterns that appear across generations
You notice similarities in relationships, roles, choices, or beliefs across different generations and want to understand them from a systemic perspective.

Grief, separation and significant family events
A loss, separation, adoption, migration, estrangement, or another important event continues to have meaning within the family story.

Parent-child dynamics that continue into adulthood
Earlier family roles or relationships may still influence how you respond to closeness, authority, rejection, conflict, or responsibility today.

Guilt around choosing a different path
Success, independence, relationships, money, or life choices can sometimes bring an unexpected sense of guilt or disloyalty towards the family.

A problem that feels bigger than the immediate situation
You understand the present issue, yet sense that it may also be connected with wider family relationships, roles, or history that have not been fully considered.









